Ten minutes
The man who came at night
Before you read
Nicodemus is a Pharisee and a member of the ruling council, and he comes to Jesus after dark. John says so twice, here and later. A respected religious teacher arrives privately, at night, with a compliment and a question, and the conversation goes somewhere he did not expect. The most quoted verse in the Bible sits inside this exchange rather than on its own.
John 3
Read the conversation as a conversation. Notice how often Nicodemus does not follow, and that he is not sent away for it.
1Verse 1. There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: 2Verse 2. The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. 3Verse 3. Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. 4Verse 4. Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? 5Verse 5. Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. 6Verse 6. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7Verse 7. Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. 8Verse 8. The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. 9Verse 9. Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? 10Verse 10. Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? 11Verse 11. Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. 12Verse 12. If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things? 13Verse 13. And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven. 14Verse 14. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: 15Verse 15. That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. 16Verse 16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17Verse 17. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18Verse 18. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19Verse 19. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20Verse 20. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21Verse 21. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God. 22Verse 22. After these things came Jesus and his disciples into the land of Judaea; and there he tarried with them, and baptized. 23Verse 23. And John also was baptizing in Aenon near to Salim, because there was much water there: and they came, and were baptized. 24Verse 24. For John was not yet cast into prison. 25Verse 25. Then there arose a question between some of John's disciples and the Jews about purifying. 26Verse 26. And they came unto John, and said unto him, Rabbi, he that was with thee beyond Jordan, to whom thou barest witness, behold, the same baptizeth, and all men come to him. 27Verse 27. John answered and said, A man can receive nothing, except it be given him from heaven. 28Verse 28. Ye yourselves bear me witness, that I said, I am not the Christ, but that I am sent before him. 29Verse 29. He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom's voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled. 30Verse 30. He must increase, but I must decrease. 31Verse 31. He that cometh from above is above all: he that is of the earth is earthly, and speaketh of the earth: he that cometh from heaven is above all. 32Verse 32. And what he hath seen and heard, that he testifieth; and no man receiveth his testimony. 33Verse 33. He that hath received his testimony hath set to his seal that God is true. 34Verse 34. For he whom God hath sent speaketh the words of God: for God giveth not the Spirit by measure unto him. 35Verse 35. The Father loveth the Son, and hath given all things into his hand. 36Verse 36. He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him.
John 3KJV
One question
What would you ask if you could come at night, where nobody could see you asking?
Nothing here is saved. It is a place to think, not a record.
To close
Jesus, there are things I would rather ask in the dark than in front of anyone. Here they are. Thank you that you did not send him away.